Motherhood needs your commitment, your consent and your willingness to give into it so it can actualize in your life. And if you're a working mom just like me, this could be a bit of a challenge. Before I had kids, I used to have these idyllic fantasy-like exceptions of what kind of mother I will be like. I will be STRICT – she will only eat organic, no junk food, no TV or phones, and bedtime should be at 8 pm sharp. I will be METICULOUS – I will only choose cotton fabric 100%. I will be FIRM – no loud voices, no answering back and no backing up from other people. Ma’am yes, ma’am! But I will be PATIENT - calm demeanor when she uses permanent marker on the wall, feed the dog with her fingers, or she broke my phone or TV down. But I did the entire opposite, you’ll see. One Sunday morning before church, it happened. I’ve been in a good mood as I brush out Chloe’s hair I put into braid she said were way too girly. I gave her chips and cup noodles for breakfast a...
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